Facebook Dating Apps – How To Use Facebook To Attract Women

Ever since I wrote the first book on how to meet women on Facebook back in 2007, I’ve been fascinated by how the average guy (like me) can use Facebook to meet women. Facebook now has roughly 200 million members and I’m guessing that if you’re a member, a lot of your friends are too. There are probably even thousands of single women in your area who are not part of your immediate network who would be fantastic potential partners.

Now there are some potential tools that can help you locate these women in your area, the five most popular Facebook apps to meet singles are:

1.Zoosk
Zoosk online dating site has created an interesting app that allows you to connect with women in your local area. The shiny is shiny but it can be a bit spammy at times, otherwise this is probably the best facebook dating app.

2. Are you interested?
You could suggest a bit obvious, but why not? There’s the fun way this app finds out if you’re interested… At least you don’t know what the score is!

3. Best match
The best match is a compatibility matchmaker. To me matchmakers are always hit and miss as sometimes likes attract and other times opposites attract, either way it’s worth giving it a good try and you might find some good options. Either way, it’s an interesting conversation starter, it always pays to have a little heart. While common ground is a good way to introduce social interaction, relying on it is a bad crutch that needs to be removed from your “game.” Chemistry and connection are far more important than common ground, no matter what some relationship experts might suggest. Ask any attractive single woman this question and she’ll agree.

4. Flirt wall
Okay, this app is a bit stupid, but it’s good for practicing your flirting and conversation skills online. Most of the women who use this app are bored and love the attention you give them. The app allows you to flirt with people anonymously, however flirting on the internet in this way is usually a waste of time. It is always important to make sure that your online interactions are moving towards an offline connection.

5. Most Eligible Single
This app tries to discover the most eligible singles in your network and local area. Make sure you don’t vote to show your interest in them. Do something much more constructive and get in touch with them. Tell them that you don’t believe the hype, but that you are curious about them.

Remember that Facebook is not a sleazy place to flirt and you will usually be interacting with someone who knows someone you know. While emailing and interacting with tons of women can increase your success rate of meeting someone, there is a much easier way to give yourself a better chance of meeting someone through Facebook.

The easiest way to have a higher success rate in following up to meet a sexual woman is to invite her to a social event where you have a mutual friend or mutual interest. There are many Facebook groups that have regular group meetups on blogging, photography, food and fine art, fashion, movies, and many other genres. It’s a good idea to attend some of these and see how they work and meet new people. The best way to position yourself is obviously to create your own group in your local area. Women are attracted to leaders and it also gives them an excuse to talk to you when they attend the meeting and you have a common interest, so the initial conversation will be less awkward.

It really can be as easy as noticing that a woman has an interest in each other and then, after a bit of flirting between the two of you, sending her a message saying something like “Hey, I noticed you’re a keen landscape photographer. I run a photography group that meets once a month. We’re going to Clear Mountain this weekend, you should join us.”

Friends of mine who are truly competent online dating experts have noticed that the women who most frequently attend singles events and are looking to meet people are people from abroad and women who have relocated due to work. Women generally only meet men through their social circles; however, when you are in a new city or country, you are forced to rebuild your social circle. Many guys like me have experienced the same situation where we either moved or didn’t have suitable potential partners in our social circle to date or in my situation both! Remember to stick with it and keep trying and improving, there is someone for all of us!